I want to have anal sex, but my wife refuses. What do I do?

Don’t let people tell you porn is influencing you in any way. Complete nonsense. Anal sex has been enjoyed for thousands of years by many woman and men. It’s also been hated by many women and men. I see strength in the woman who are completely sexually devoted to their man and I know many woman who are. You just gotta find the right one… you only get one life. I will only live it with someone completely devoted to me in every way. Why any man would stick with a woman who denies him in any way, is just foreign to me.

My wife is coming around. She still gets upset sometimes when I switch from vag to anal but, she will always submit and take it like the champ I married. If she gives any grief about it, I pull her hair back and go harder. All I hear from her now is “yes daddy”. I miss the days when she would orgasm during anal penetration but, she’s putting in the effort a least 3 times a week. She bought butt plugs and started training herself. I’m so proud of her.

Sounds like you ended up in a sexually incompatible relationship with a partner who is not submissive. My wife started refusing anal sex 2 years into our marriage. I will tell you what I did only after giving her space and a lot of time she needed to sort out the issues she was having with sex. While we were dating and up to this point, sex was whatever each other wanted, whenever each other wanted, zero boundaries, complete dedication to each other.

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Try this, if your wife hasn’t responded to conversation. While having vag sex with your wife make sure to give her an orgasm first. Then, pull out and rub the tip of your dick up and down her butt crack and around her butt hole. If she hasn’t stopped you yet, start to insert slowly. If she stops you, tell her to leave the room so you can use porn to satisfy your urge. If she refuses to leave, proceed to masturbate watching anal porn in front of her. That’s exactly what I did. My wife does not like anything or anyone else getting me off but her.

I finally put my foot down and told her. I married you with an expectation our bodies are as dedicated to each other and that understanding would never change. You’ve changed and it’s showing me you no longer want to be that girl I need. Either you decide if you want to change your mind back to being the girl I married or, I can get a side chick to take care of the dirty laundry you no longer want to do. If you want to be the only girl in my bed, you’re going to be up for the task. All of your holes are going to be enjoyed any way I want from this point forward. If you don’t like it, I’ll get a side chick who does. If you don’t like that, divorce me and find someone more sexually suited for you.